Some People Want to Know….
>компютри втора употреба been four months since my last post, not exactly a commercial operation we have here… But then this blog was never intended to be that, no money involved, just a place to think out loud. I’ve had a lot of friends read my last post and look at me and say - “So whats the answer?” It never really occurred to me that someone would actually want an answer, crap. The good news is that I’ve spent a lot of time thinking about it. Because it’s still the most important question in my life. More important than how will I make a living in the next few years? More important than will I have enough money to send my kid to college? It gets right to the core of who we are as human beings. Forgot the question?
It would be - “How do we keep a relationship feeling that magical way that it does when it’s brand new?” Most people tell me it’s not possible. I’m willing to admit theres truth to that on some limited level. But I still believe it can be kept wonderfully alive, like new, if we make the effort. Not that I have all the details but I do have some thoughts….
When you kiss that person, slow down and enjoy it. There is nothing routine about sharing a kiss. Never make it that way. When your lips touch, feel the energy that flows between the two of you. Let it be slow, passionate, wonderful, every-time. Feel their skin on your lips as if it were the first time ever, every-time. If you can do this then it will feel electric and incredible, every-time.
Is this the whole complete answer? Certainly not. But it’s a start. We must make time in our lives for a great relationship. They don’t go on being wonderful by accident. They require work and thought, like anything worth while. It is the core of what we should try and be, connected to the source energy of someone or something. That’s what makes a new relationship so special, the connectedness that we feel with new love.
So take the time to feel it and do it right. It’s definitely worth the effort. Passionate moments are very much like a period of meditation. The calmness and lack of outside distractions are very similar. Allow yourself to become connected to that other person, be it kiss or something much more intimate. These are the times when we are truly connected to the source.
Feel free to share your thoughts……